Real talk!

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So, let’s have some real talk. You might think that my life is oh so rosy, full of energy and positivity. But reality is, just like everyone else, I have moments of doubts, fears and mishaps!

Yesterday, I came to office, feeling stressed-out since I have to finish a lot of things before I leave the company. I prepared a to-do list and looking forward to a busy and productive day. I will be joining my new company next week so I really need to settle everything. But first I decided to clean up my bag and that changed my whole plan for the next two weeks.

Three days ago, I have a feeling that water spilled inside my bag, my daughter’s water bottle accidently tilted. I put my hand inside and didn’t feel anything so I just carried on. Yesterday, while cleaning my bag, I noticed that my Kidzania vouchers are wet. Oh no! the ‘Valid Until -Date-‘  is not readable anymore. I looked closely and breathed a sigh of relief when I found one ticket that has still a readable validity date. That should be fine. Then next I saw the police report (my BIL had an accident using my car), I again hyperventilated and prayed that it’s not damaged as I don’t want to go to the police station for a new copy. I cautiously unfold the paper and prayed that it won’t disintegrate. Thanks God it didn’t and the notes are still readable. Then one by one, I removed all those wet receipts, business cards and whatnots from my bag. THEN, I saw it! My passport!!! I checked and my heart sank. Some of the texts are unreadable and my photo was severely damaged.

Damaged passport

My immediate thought is our trip to Italy. For sure, I won’t be able to travel with this passport. I checked my options and the only thing I can think of is to apply for a new one. I left the office and went immediately to Philippine Consulate. They told me that it will take minimum of 5 weeks to replace it. It won’t work since we are travelling on 1st April.  So I asked them if I can just fly to Philippines and apply from there. Sure I can and processing will only take 7 days. But first they told me to check with airport immigration if I can leave the country with a damaged passport. Otherwise I will need to apply for a travel document. 🙁

So after the consulate, I went straight to the airport and looked for the immigration office. I showed them my passport and the guy in the counter just said that, yes, I can travel out of the country. I decided to believe what he said and left.

As soon as I reached the office, I immediately purchased a ticket and discussed with my husband if I should bring my daughter. Last time I left her, she was crying non-stop and everyone had sleepless nights. It’s obvious that we should be travelling together. Next thing I did is to call my new boss. I explained to her that although we had agreed that I am joining next week, I won’t be able to because I need to travel back home to get a new passport.

You can imagine the guilt, embarrassment and regret that I am experiencing yesterday. All the hassle I went through and the money I will spend for a stupid mistake. All my plans were thrown out of the window.

While ranting to my friend, she told me that it’s fine and she was amazed on how fast I thought of a solution and how I was able to finalized everything in a few hours. She said that if it happened to her, she will cry first and wallow in misery.

My sister also reminded me the conversation we had few weeks ago. I told her how I wish I can rest for a few weeks before joining the new company and I realized I also keep on saying this to my friends. Ahhh, the Universe had heard what I’m saying and granted my wish. We should really be careful what we wish for.

So now, everything is set for my flight. I just need to pack my stuff. I am trying to remove all negative thoughts and thinking that this is happening for a reason. I may not understand it now but for sure I will learn something from this. I wake up this morning with a headache but I immediately thanked God for the new day and prayed for a productive and beautiful day.

I hope you will also have a great day! Remember, a day above ground is always a good day. 🙂


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16 Comments on Real talk!

  1. lyn
    April 13, 2015 at 6:02 PM (3 years ago)

    how was ur flight and ur passport? Does philippines immigration asked you about your passport?? Same problem with me..

    • Happy Joy
      April 14, 2015 at 6:30 AM (3 years ago)

      Going back to the Philippines was not an issue. Philippine Consulate said that even if your passport is tattered, immigration will let you in since your a Filipino national. The challenge is if you can get out of the country where you are currently are. If it’s really badly damaged and cannot be read, then you might need to appy for some travel documents from the PH embassy to just get out of country. Good luck!

  2. lyn
    April 14, 2015 at 7:55 AM (3 years ago)

    I’m in Philippines going back to Thailand again. Tomorrow is my flight and I’m so worried about my passport. I already called the Philippines immigration and the officer said its okay i just need to present my OEC since im an OFW worker. Does immi officer questioned you? Thanks

  3. Happy Joy
    April 14, 2015 at 12:01 PM (3 years ago)

    When did you damage your passport? Habang nasa Pinas ka? And how badly damaged is it? I don’t think you will have an issue going out of the country. My concern is the Thailand immig. How lax are they? Some countries are very strict with regards to passport. But I guess since makita naman ng Thai immig na resident ka nila, i dont see any problem. Good luck! Hope you can update me.

  4. lyn
    April 14, 2015 at 12:45 PM (3 years ago)

    During my stay in Thailand Nadamage na ung passport ko. Then I went back since March 24, Thai immi didnt questioned me at all, wala na palang rush, 10 working days na yung rush passport so I called DFA main, naipit kasi ako ng holy week and april 9 holiday, I needed to go back tomorrow kasi reporting na namin. I have visa and work permit, im married also with a thai so i have thai surname din.

  5. Happy Joy
    April 14, 2015 at 1:16 PM (3 years ago)

    Ahhh, i don’t think you will have an issue. And yes, ang pinaka urgent na processing time for passport renewal is 10 days. Nakiusap lang ako na gawin na 7 days since I need to fly back to Dubai. Apply ka na lang ng new passport pagdating mo sa Thailand. Don’t worry, you will be fine tomorrow. 🙂

  6. lyn
    April 15, 2015 at 4:15 PM (3 years ago)

    Hi.. everything is okay. thank you so much

    • Happy Joy
      April 15, 2015 at 4:40 PM (3 years ago)

      That’s very good to hear! 🙂

  7. kenny
    October 4, 2015 at 11:02 AM (2 years ago)

    …. kailang ko lng po ng advice, accidentally nabasa ko po passport ko last friday .
    naka visit visa po ako dito sa uae wiill end this 24 , at bivisahan n po ako this week ng working visa ng company, at kailangan ko po mg exit sa oman/ques.. valid p po b pasport ko?di nmn totally nasira, kulubot lng at ngkablat ibang lettra pero nababasa p nmn lalo n sa id n part..ano po dapat ko gawin? salamat po

    • Happy Joy
      October 5, 2015 at 6:36 AM (2 years ago)

      Hi Kenny! So sad to hear yung nangyari sa passport mo. Pero unang pumasok sa isip ko is pwede pa yan. I mean, sa akin kze halos nabura half ng face ko. Of course hindi ko masasabi kung ano ang sasabihin ng oman immigration at Dubai immigration. Depende sa mood nila.

      I suggest daan ka sa Philippine Consulate natin at magpa advise kung dapat ka bigyan ng temporary travel document. Ang alam ko lang kze is yung travel doc is for one way and usually dapat pauwi.

      Again, hindi ko sure kung gaano ka damaged ang passport mo pero based sa description mo I think lulusot yan.

      Update mo ka ha!

  8. Grace
    July 10, 2016 at 1:57 PM (2 years ago)

    Hello poh pa advice naman poh kc poh nabasa q passport q per kunti lng namam poh may ticket n poh aq and last of the month paalis n poh aq ok lng poh ba yun nabasa lng poh say bandang picture q poh n color red n pic tnx poh sa suggest

    • Grace
      July 10, 2016 at 2:00 PM (2 years ago)

      From pins poh to africa

      • Happy Joy
        August 11, 2016 at 7:13 AM (1 year ago)

        Hi Grace, really sorry for late reply. I don’t check my comments here often. Follow me on
        I’m not sure if nakaalis ka na. It has been a month since your message. Let me know what happens para ma-share natin experience sa iba 🙂

  9. Jonathan
    June 8, 2017 at 3:24 AM (8 months ago)

    Hi! Same situation, sakin naman nabasa ng adobo ung passport ko at magbabakadyon nako this june 22 so kelangan ko na ilaban to. Pero nagtanong na din ako sa philippine embassy at ang sabi nila eh wala naman daw problema sakanila ung passport ko since ung babang part lang naapektuhan. But what I’m really worrying about is kung makabalik pa kaya ako ng kuwait with this kind of passport. I do really need an advice. I can send my sample pic para matignan nyo po.

    • Happy Joy
      June 8, 2017 at 10:06 AM (8 months ago)

      I suggest punta ka sa immigration department and show your passport. Ganun kze ginawa ko and sabi nila, wala daw problema. The fact na makalabas ka, tingin ko makakapasok ka ulit. All the best!


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